Musings of the week

Hey! So last week was amazing. Full of so many awesome experiences, and here's some info about a few of them.

Sunday- the Hebrew month of Adar began and we had a festive service at Pardes (Pardes is the school where I'm studying). Adar is when everything gets turned upside down and nothing is as it seems. People wore funny costumes and we sang loudly...

Monday last week was Yom Iyyun Shel Hesed (day of loving kindness) for the Pardes community. Here's a great description of that day by another Pardes student, plus a picture of me!
http://theseandthose.pardes.org/?p=234

Tuesday I went to Ramallah with a friend. I got to see some Seeds of Peace people and just experience the city. It's very commercial, very busy, lots of people, and has a very different feel than Jerusalem. It feels like a completely different country. I got to meet some activists working for ISM and hear about the demonstrations they attend and how they document what's happening for the Palestinians. I admire what they're doing, even if it's not the kind of work I feel drawn to. I'm looking forward to revisiting Palestine soon.

Thursday night I went to Tel Aviv. It was fun to be in a light, easy-going city. To visit an art gallery, see the sea, palm-trees, eat chinese food. Jerusalem is very heavy, and I certainly became aware of that when I was gone from here.

Friday I went up to Tzfat for Shabbat to the Livnot campus. Livnot was the beginning of my return to Judiasm and my spiritual journey in a lot of ways. Being there is so rejuvenating for my soul. It also makes me realize how far I have come.

And now it's tuesday again. Purim is upon us! The crazy holiday where everyone disguises him/herself and gets drunk and we listen to the story of Esther. It's also about giving to the poor, giving food to friends, and eating a bit meal. Plus I have 2 days off of class! Should be fun...

New Food

I ate a delicious felafel yesterday. I'm trying to enjoy all the awesome fruits and vegetables here (they really are especially delicious and very cheap). Unfortunately I have yet to get to the shouk (the large outdoor market), where there are so many foods to buy and things to see. I know, it's crazy that I haven't been there since I arrived. But it's far! And I'm in class all day nearly every day. I'll get there soon. Some things I've been enjoying: persimmons, cucumbers, tomatoes, peppers, and dates. The only problem with dates is that for some reason I think they look like cockroaches. What a horrible association! I still eat them anyway.

I also have to yet to go into the old city... for many reasons.

However, I did go to east Jerusalem last night to a fun restaurant with Seeds of Peace friends. It's crazy how you can be in a neighborhood where everything's in Hebrew, then turn the corner and suddenly you're in a whole incredible new place. Different people, different atmosphere, Arabic everywhere in place of Hebrew. I love experiencing the different cultures, but it's amazing how segregated it feels.

lo ivrit?

First of all, I attend the Seeds of Peace binational seminar this weekend at Neve Shalom. I'm exhausted, but it was an incredible 2 days. Seeing some of my campers from last summer made me so so happy, even if I didn't really have much time to talk to them at all. Hopefully I'll be seeing many of them again soon on a more individual basis.

The point of this blog post is just to say that it is infinitely frustrating for me to not speak the language here. I firmly believe that if you're going to be in a country for more than just a couple weeks you need to make every effort you can to meet the culture you're living in at least halfway. While I am learning a little bit of Hebrew in my classes at Pardes, it's not modern conversational Hebrew, and I'm spending the vast majority of my time around English speakers speaking English. And I'm not in an English speaking country!! Yes, it is true, most people here speak English. But not everyone. Not necessarily the checkout lady at the grocery store or the cab driver who took me home this evening. And I may be able to manage sometimes with just a couple words, but it's not because I understand what's being said, it's because I'm picking up on social cues. When the cab driver turns to me and asks a question and the only word I understand is "yerushalayim" aka Jerusalem, I can figure out that I need to give him the name of the street where I want to go.

However, I am building my vocabulary. This weekend I gained a bunch more Hebrew words (yay for being around Israelis!), and I even learned a few new Arabic words as well (yay for being around Arabs!).

More to come... lilah tov!

Jaywalking, or How I've Become a New Yorker

Here in Jerusalem, people wait for the green walking man before they cross the street. Even if there are absolutely no cars coming. And sometimes you have to wait for for 3 green walking mans- for example on Derech Hevron (a major road I live near) where the street is divided into 3 sections. This means crossing the street can take a long time. I have to cross stop lights at least 4 times on my way to school, this equals about 10 walking mans. Years ago I would never have thought that waiting for the walking light to appear before crossing the street would be strange. But after living 3.5 years in New York City, where no one EVER waits for the light to change, I find this Israeli custom severely annoying. Heck, in NYC no one even looks at the light- if there are no cars, you just cross, and sometimes even if there are cars you cross (at your own risk). It doesn't seem like jaywalking to me- it's just being logical. But New Yorkers move at a faster pace than most of the world I think. And I hear that people actually get tickets for jaywalking here. So I'm trying to be more careful... But standing there waiting when I'm late for class just seems ridiculous. This is how I've become a little bit of a New Yorker.